These days and times are TREACHEROUS when it fits into relationships. This includes links people have with their life partners, spouses, children, siblings, parents, co-workers, and even friends. Through it all, it is no wonder that the divorce rate is higher than it’s ever been. But why? Is it because of the freedom and courage people now possess to do as they please and do whatever wants them? Is it because due to sexual immorality and liberation, people who otherwise would not have, now have “options”? A friend of mine once told me, and it’s in my book, “that a man is only as faithful as his options.”
I do believe that is NOT the case. I think that “a man is only as faithful as he CHOOSES to be.” Just like a decision and a choice are being made when one commits to a relationship, there is that same moment of truth when a person is allowed to be adventuresome and venture out.
While it is painful for sisters to grasp the concept of their man cheating on them, and while men say over and over that infidelity is one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome – some could care less about what you think or how you feel. Some only serve and are out for self, and self is all that matters.
When it comes to where you and your belief systems lie, just get in where you fit in. We are each made to the specification of a unique design that is our own.
Each of us has a will; each of us has our own set of morals and value systems we hold dear. And some of us even have a conscience. No matter what it is, you possess remember this: WHEN YOU CHOOSE OTHER THAN IN THE BEST INTEREST OF YOUR HIGHER SELF – YOU LOSE EACH AND EVERY TIME!
