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Signs That Your Child May Be Bullied Online

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Signs That Your Child May Be Bullied Online

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The fact is, About bullying is at an all-time high. Almost half of all children surveyed report being bullied online. Because it is so prevalent, the best way to protect your child is to brush up on the signs of online abuse and how to deal with it.

Signs of Online Bullying

First, let’s look at a few signs that could mean your child is being bullied online. It’s essential to keep open communication with your child so that you can notice differences in behavior that might be very subtle.

They Tell You – Most kids do not tell their parents if they are being bullied online or in person. But some do. Don’t dismiss their concerns if they tell you about them. Instead, be proactive in helping them end it.

They Stop Using Their Device – Some kids react by not wanting to play games, get online, or even use their smartphones due to the bullying.

They Try to Hide Their Device – It’s odd, but sometimes kids will protect their device more instead of not using it. They will hide the messages and not want you to see them. They may even accuse you of invading their privacy.

They Seem Nervous or Jumpy – Often, kids might be afraid of the person and start acting jumpy if the bullying is happening from a stranger. They might begin double-checking house security and other strange behaviors like that.

They Seem Depressed and Withdrawn – Anytime your child’s behavior changes and they act differently than usual (such as being depressed and withdrawn when they usually are not), this is a sign that something is not correct.

They Lose Interest in School – When someone is being bullied, even if it’s online, it’s still often by students that they must see every day. If it is, they may start not wanting to go or be around their peers.

They Make Comments That Disturb You – Comments like “I have no friends,” or “Everyone hates me,” or “I’m dumb,” and so forth are signs that someone may be telling your child something that is making them feel isolated and alone.

Now that we’ve highlighted several of the behaviors that might signal online bullying, it’s time to figure out what to do about it. This list of how to respond will be beneficial if you’re experiencing the same thing.

What to Do About Online Abuse

Dealing with online abuse is not that much different from offline abuse, except that you have technology at your fingertips that you can use to control the situation better than in person. However, keep in mind that a lot of online abuse does trickle down to the offline world.

Take Screen Shots – When you see the evidence, take screenshots of it so that you have a record of it. You can use software that is already on your computer for this. For taking screenshots with a phone, check your user manual or online for how to do it.

If the bullying reaches criminal behavior such as threatening death or harm, report it to the police immediately.* Report and Block the Person – Teach your child not to respond in any way to these types of people the moment they realize that it’s not going to go well. Ask them to block the person and, if they are doing something illegal, report them right away using the tools on the platform.

Change Passwords – You never know what else is happening with an online bully, especially if you don’t know who they are in real life. Take this time to change all passwords. Teach your child how to make hard passwords. If you can, set up two-step authentication.

Check Security Settings – You may want to look at all the security sections so that you can find out what others can see about your child’s information. You don’t want everyone to have their location and phone number or other identifying facts.

Delete All Messages – Keep in mind that if the messages are criminal, you may want to keep them until after a police report has been filed. But if you aren’t going to report it to the police, take the screenshot and keep it. Then delete all the messages, so your child doesn’t have to keep seeing them.

Talk about the Futility of Retaliating – One of the fastest ways to shut down an online bully is simply the report and block feature. It doesn’t help to engage with an abuser at all. There is no point because that’s what they want you to do.

The good thing is that more online communities are taking online bullying seriously, including gaming communities. They want to stop it so that more people can enjoy playing games and participating in online activities. You can help by talking to your child about bullying in general and online specifically. Let them know what it is, how to prevent it, and how to report it when it happens.