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Wonder Twin (YOU & the I AM) Powers ACTIVATE!

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 28, 2020, at 1:00 pm

When someone behaves poorly, it’s always because they’ve forgotten how powerful they are, how beautiful life is, and how much they’re loved.

This was the Universe teaching I woke up to this morning and dependable indeed. While I believe they’re in no coincidence that almost everything that plagues man’s human walk here on earth (as far as I’m concerned) has to do with the lusts of the flesh (Pride | Greed | Selfishness | Sexual Immorality), I am also convinced that everything plaguing man’s spiritual walk here on this earth is directly tied to the ‘problems with the GREAT” (Fear | Insecurity | Arrogance | Complacency).

My entire life’s work history before January 2010 was spent working my way up a corporate ladder one step at a time. I started at the lowest stages (at least by my measures) and began the climb. I’ve worked at a fast-food restaurant, for a janitorial service or as Florence would put it as “a Household Techniiiiishhhian”..lol, as ‘A GIRL’ for affluent Caucasians (if you know what I mean and if you don’t let’s just say I’m writing a book that is set in the ’40s), a telephone operator, secretary, administrative assistant, coordinator, Chief of Staff, Manager, Director, Executive Director, Vice President and now CEO.

I learned over the 22 years and that very enduring climb, that who Stefany was as a secretary was who STEFANY was as a VP and even now as a CEO. While I was plagued with a lot of insecurities and traumas from childhood (and NOT at the hands of my parents as some have lived), but at the hands of others, it grew me into a person who could never singly identify anything excellent or worth in myself to hold on to. As a result, I had to dream. I had to shut myself off from people, even when in their presence (that’s what young children who are molested learn to do- numb themselves from being ‘aware’), and it became a skill that I developed a little too well.

For indeed we lose the ‘VIBRANCY’ of all there is about this LIFE’s experience when we are unable to see, know, and subsequently enjoy the presence and beauty of the NOW and consciously learn that in living in the LOVE of NOW we inadvertently begin to shift and understand that the POWER of then is still within us and forgiveness gives us that power. Once your consciousness is awakened, you further discover the POWER of WHAT IS TO BE belongs with you and always has – because it was BREATHED INTO YOU and BORN WITH YOU.

The activation of the power of LOVE, the power of a consciousness that discovers THE LOVE of THE I AM, is an unyielding force that must be developed and harnessed to do GREAT things. Do only GREAT people do GREAT things? That is what most ordinary people surmise. The truth of the matter is the only ordinary that exists in this world are those things without life or form.

EVERYONE comes into this world extraordinary at birth – so it’s the GREATNESS IN and OF people that do GREAT things. So if you were unaware, let me just help you along by speaking with you “WONDER TWIN POWERS, ACTIVATE!!!!”


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Opening Another Can of Worms

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 28, 2020, at 1:00 pm

As the day had wound down yesterday… and oh what a day it had been, there’s so very much that had taken place. The morning’s energy of posts and healing on a FB group I am a part of rushed in like a flood for me. The pain of my childhood molestation is something I overcame and was free from so many years ago; even more so with every commencement speech and public profession to heal others has given. Yesterday, something very different happened. Yesterday, another young lady’s walk down her memory lane triggered something in me, and I was jarred somewhere I hadn’t visited in quite some time. I’ve never written “completely” about it that I can recall, and I’ve never shared it w/anyone or my family.

It’s amazing how God brings us our healing in so very many forms, using others. It is a beautiful thing in its entirety. However, the process itself is no joke. Facing yourself for any human being is a challenge, facing the horrors you’ve experienced is unquestionable. My heart went out to her as I heard the anger and sadness and pain resonate through her words of rape, incest, abuse, and childhood torture. As I ached for her and started crying, I remembered the night it happened.

I had done something I should not have done, and my parents were angry with me. My mother cornered me in the Dining Room, and I knew she was going to spank me for what I had done. The door and the gate were still open, so right when she reached out for me, I ducked and ran out the front door and down the street as fast as I could. I couldn’t think of anywhere to go, so I dipped into the Spanish Bodega on Kingston Avenue b/c they knew me there. I asked the owner behind the counter if there was somewhere he could hide me.

He hid me in this corner crawlspace, where I ducked behind the counter. I was breathing so hard I thought everyone could hear. A few moments later, I heard the door chimes ring, and my father comes into the store and asks if anyone had seen me. He replied no, and the chimes sounded again on his exit. I waited for what seemed like an hour, but I’m sure it was only a few moments. I used the phone and thought, who I could call who would not insist I come back home?

A few weeks earlier, I had met this girl named Sophia (of course, not her real name). She seemed to be a girl whose mom allowed her to go anywhere she wanted, so I called her. She was a friend of my girl Natalie Williams (again a fake name), so I knew she was calm. She told me to come and stay at her house. So I took the three train (I think the store owner gave me $) down to Lafayette Gardens and rang the bell.

She lived in a brownstone too, but it wasn’t like ours, and her block wasn’t like ours either. I walked up to the third floor, which is where she and her brother’s rooms were with a living/sitting room and bathroom in between. I told her what had happened and she said I could stay. Later that evening, a whole group of people (guys & girls) came over with alcohol. They said they were going to start playing a game called BULLSHIT…now mind you, I loved spades and card games, and knew all about the game. Once I said yes, I saw the group sit in a circle and place bottles of the ’40s and other beverages in the center. Sophia motioned for me to sit next to her so I did and when I said: “where are the cards” she looked at me and started laughing and said “girl there ain’t no cards”… just pay attention to you’ll get it.

The game was a word game, and every time you missed, you had to drink a shot of whatever was poured for you to drink. Mind you, I had never drunk anything in my life, and the more they played, the faster they became, the more I messed up, and the more they made me drink. With every attempt of my trying to quit, even from changing my mind at the beginning, Sophia said, “no girl, you going to play if you want to stay.” I explained after the first couple of shots that the beer was nasty and making me sick. She said, “ok. We’ll start giving you ice tea then”. Everyone started laughing, and I was utterly clueless. I’m not sure how much time passed b/c things began to get blurry.

Sophia’s mom came home from work early, marched up the stairs in a hanger, yelling and screaming and cursing. She came and threw everyone out of the house, and Sophia told me to get in the closet to hide. I was so drunk I could barely stand up. She told me to “shhh,” so I put my finger to my mouth and said, “ok, I’ll shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.” I tried desperately to hold myself together, but it was hard.

A few moments later, she came and got me out of the closet and three a blanket on the other twin bed in her room and said here; you can lay down there and sleep it off. You’ll be ok in the morning. So I laid down and pulled the blanket over me to go to sleep. I don’t know how much time had passed, but I woke up to a whisper by my face. Someone was nudging me and trying to talk to me. I looked but couldn’t see, and I just flagged the person to go away.

Next thing I know, someone was grabbing my feet and dragging me out of bed. I tried to jump up like what and realized my hands and mouth were bound. I was dragged on the floor on my back and into Sophia’s brother’s room and put onto his bed. I was so sick and so dizzy I couldn’t see straight. I was trying so hard to fight, but my one arm felt like it weighed my entire 120 lbs of body weight. I never felt so heavy …like dead steel weight.

As her brother began to take my clothes off, I realized what was happening, and I started crying. He put his hand over my mouth and told me to be quiet. I started begging and pleading with him and explained that I was a virgin and had never even kissed boys, and please don’t do this. He laughed and said, “yeah, right, that’s what they all say.”

At that moment, I knew I had done it now. I had finally put myself in the position of no return. I don’t even know how I was coherent enough to beg for him not to… maybe the adrenaline and pain of being forced to have sex again (like I was pushed so many times when I was younger at 7 yrs old). Maybe in some twisted way, being molested all those years gave me the skill and strength to deal with what was about to happen to me.

I went immediately into attack mode. I remember him punching me so hard in the back of my head when I tried to resist, so I stopped resisting and went back to ‘detach’ mode, the mode my past had taught me. After he was finished, he said to me, “oh shit; you weren’t lying, you were a virgin, now go to sleep and get some rest.” A couple of hours later, I crawled out of bed and ran to the bathroom and immediately started throwing up. Once done, I tiptoed back into KW’s (that was her brother’s name) room, gathered up my clothes to put on, and crawled into the bed. Sophia beckoned me into the night before.

The next day I told her what happened, and she kind of smirked and laughed and said kW is so crazy, “for real?”. I didn’t know what to feel. I left and went to our mutual friend’s house. I told her what happened, and she was like, “I can’t believe KW did that. That’s a shame. I hope you aren’t pregnant”.. I’m not sure if she believed me… after all these were her friends. After I left her house at St. James Place, I got on the train where I just rode for two days straight.

After four days had passed, I decided to call my mother. She sounded like an older woman and said she didn’t care what just please come home. I could hear the broken-ness in her voice. I felt terrible. My mother, who had me at 22, was only 38 at the time. When I arrived, my parents let me in; no one said a word. I walked up the two flights to my 3rd-floor bedroom and shut the door.

I slept for four days straight. I couldn’t eat. On that fourth day back of my return, my holy and sanctified aunt and mother called me into my parent’s bedroom down the hall. My aunt said the Lord spoke to her and told her that something happened to me. My mother asked me what happened and I said nothing. She then asked me why I hadn’t taken a bath or come out of the room to eat for four days. I said because I was tired. I remember my aunt looking at me with the most compassionate, heartfelt look and her quiet angelic voice saying, “Stef, are you SURE nothing happened?”. I said, “Auntie, I’m sure.” So I left the bedroom, went into my room, looked at myself in the mirror, and said: “Get it together.”

I ran my bathwater, soaked for what seemed an eternity, and told myself…pull yourself together, and from that day forward, I did. That was a week or two before Easter 1986. I remember thinking to myself, here it is I’ve been forced to have sex with my two cousins (who were sisters and about 6 or 7 yrs older than me); yes GIRL cousins and taken away my innocence, and now this girl’s brother has forced me to have sex with him and taken my virginity…the only thing good I had left. That was the day I died my 3rd death.

Here’s the irony of it all.

In the summer of 2009, a group of my high school classmates who had re-connected thru facebook organized a trip to Tampa to visit one of the girls who was celebrating her divorce. Tracey (not her real name) and I had gone to Satellite West JHS together, so after being convinced by one of the guys that went with us, I decided to go. I had just found out that I had married a fraud, so I needed a break, and everyone in my family thought I should go to.

During one of our late-night rap sessions at the hotel, the girls were all talking and sharing. My girlfriend Margaret (fake name) (who also lived at St. James Place) who grew up w/ a lot of people I did was talking about some of her friends, and she mentioned the name, Sophia. I said, “did she have a brother named XXX?”. She said, “Yeah, KW… he’s on Facebook, he’s married with three kids now”. My heart started beating out of my chest, and I broke out into a sweat. Everybody was like, “what’s wrong???”. I said nothing and excused myself to the lady’s room. Before that day, I had remembered no more what had happened to me.

I started throwing up and then said, “OK, Stefany, get yourself together.” I gained my composure and went back into the suite as if nothing happened. Yesterday, when the group thread I was on went live, and women were speaking openly about incest, being molested, being raped, and sold for drugs by family members, I was jarred back to that place. I spent the entire day WHOOOPED from I can’t tell you what. It’s been a rough day and evening—so many things… so many tears… so much. So much.

All I know is, I never thought I would ever speak about this in public EVER….and from those posts, from my being able to write this in a confessional email to a friend first, am I even able to do this. And while there’s a small part of me who wants to search and ‘friend request’ KW and say “REMEMBER ME?”, I think I’ll just let sleeping dogs lie and not open up another can of worms.

He’s married, with a family, and in my NEEDING to give him the benefit of the doubt for what he did, I’d instead just think he had been drinking too much himself, and he isn’t a monster.


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FASHION IS ALWAYS ABOUT OPPORTUNITY 

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FASHION IS ALWAYS ABOUT OPPORTUNITY With so many of America’s lives focusing on a new normal; my hope is that by the time this article is published it will all be but a memory. Whether we are inside or outside, there will be heartfelt notions that can be utilized as our new life After Shelter.
With this year’s “Shelter-In-Place”
you have/had an opportunity to fine tune your current wardrobe; remove pieces that are no longer serving you or adding pieces that can bring you joy.
With most people, looking for projects or trying to find ways to be creative is to challenge your self. Review your wardrobe items and find ways to bring in more color, be open to wearing items in a new way (e.g. mixing up that suit to be worn as separates) or bringing new accessories, into the mix.

For more immediate thoughts, if there is ever a time to focus on comfy, cozy athleisure, it is now. For the After Shelter Lifestyle think of what you have/had in your everyday comfort and how you chose to get through it is completely up to you. I will suggest, comfort, warmth, ease and humor.

RETAIL THOUGHTS
Just as consumers use this time to reflect so are the retailers. There has been such an increase in online sales and the push to keep you excited.

Mrs. Obama has said this situation will give us all a time to reflect on what we really need, what we can do without and seeing what is truly important. While I agree with her sentiment, I also know this unprepared change has forced so many businesses out of work. 

Retailers are being asked to look for new ways to offer you items and ideas to keep you interested. The overall economic downturn will have individuals paying very close attention to how their dollar is spent. “Table Top” presentation are being discussed asking the consumer to consider their appearance for their video chat meetings, to offer mental stimulation and help with our overall situation. These ideas will be to create a new future, where people will be asked to consider how much is really necessary. The answer will impact us all. Just as we were asked to take this situation day by day; your overall consumption and necessity should be reviewed, in the same way.

PERSONAL OUTLOOKS
Personally, I look at this in many different ways. Enjoying  a break from the norm isn’t a bad thing; you just need to ask yourself what this break means. Do you put it all away for now and enjoy going natural/casual (no make-up, no hair, easy knit clothing) or look at this opportunity as a way to infuse change, into your lifestyle. By trying new hair routines, color or prints in your clothing, accessories and different make-up ideas can be the shift you need in your After Shelter self.

Think of your Shelter Lifestyle as a great opportunity to learn and grow your After Shelter Lifestyle by applying new makeup routines you’ve learned, how that blouse you bought looks surprisingly good with the sweater you’ve had for so long or how it wasn’t that difficult to do that different hairstyles after all.

Maybe none of these ideas came to mind during your Shelter Lifestyle, but that doesn’t mean you cannot apply this thought process and bring new ideas into your daily dressing. In returning to our normal lives, I believe so many small challenges will be in front of us, reinventing yourself for mental interest and enjoyment can definitely be one of the changes.

DESIGNER CONCEPTS
Many designers are asking what this change will ultimately mean for them.
Many Designers will use this time to focus on clearer messages. What that looks like will be reflected in each designer’s stories.
For some it will mean focus on fewer pieces to communicate their inner stories while others may decide price parameters need to change to offer a completely different point of view, to the customers. Others may use this time to tell a strong message of hope or soldier on as they have always done.

Gorgio Armani is asking the press and retail community to be conscious of what this new normal looks like, post shelter by not asking for faster and cheaper and still expect better. The craft of well made, hand sewn clothing will always require long man hours which will be reflected, in the cost. Maybe the change will have to come in asking not for more, but for better. It is important we remember for all aspects of our Put Togethers. Treat yourself as the amazing powerful yet delicate flower you are with garbs, which adorn this message.

No matter what our After Shelter Lifestyle looks like make sure the strongest change is reflected, in what makes you happy.

Be happy outside by changes, from inside!


 

Time to Take That Trip, Don’t Fear The Journey

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 28, 2020, at 1:00 pm

You have been given a ROADMAP to a journey and decide you’ll make the trip. Along the way, you are JOINED by a roadie, and you continue.

Then you get stuck in TRAFFIC and seem to be going nowhere. Things start moving again, and then some ACCIDENT forces YOU to take a DETOUR.

You follow a NEW ROUTE. Since you are already off course, you STOP at a rest stop. While resting, you GAS UP because you know it’s A LONG TRIP.

You FIND your way BACK to the original ROUTE. You take NOTICE along the way the SCENERY, sometimes w/great APPRECIATION.

You also SEE others along with the SAME ROUTE catch up to you and then PASS you. You then start to SEE SIGNS that you don’t have FAR to go.

There’s a TOLL to be PAID, and before you know it, YOU’VE ARRIVED. If you think that chasing this DESTINY that has been DESIGNED for you isn’t real, just follow the DIRECTIONS, use that ROAD MAP, I’ve told you what to EXPECT b/c I’ve taken the trip myself.

Just do it, once you GET THERE, then you can REST!!! Enjoy your day, family.


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QUEEN DON’T FORGET THAT CROWN!

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By crown I mean that hair!
I talk so much about clothing and wardrobe, but there is another element I don’t us to forget, HAIR!
I Love-Love-LOVE HAIR! I love hairstyles, hair color & hair texture of all kinds! I even love the close shaved head! A close cropped or shaved head is the opportunity to shown the shape of your beautiful head, allow ease to your lifestyle and paint that face!

In a time where the Selfie and now the Slofie is so important, make sure you got that crown Right & Tight!

TEXTURE
I am an advocate of natural hair texture for all women with naturally curly and kinky hair of all ethnicities. Some of us have hair that will not grow down, but grows out and that’s okay too! ALL HAIR IS GOOD HAIR! It’s important we embrace what grows out of our head, in its natural form. Never be ashamed of what makes you! There is nothing wrong with enhancing your natural beauty, but what make a true queen is to be unapologetically herself! Remember, the ability to grow hair is a blessing, in itself.

Glorify your hair and hair’s texture by purchasing products that moisturize and help you enhance the texture. Textured hair has a tendency to be dry, so keeping it moisturized to enhance your texture is important. Being aware of your hair’s ability will not only strengthen the hair itself, but your ability to know how to wear it and thus your confidence.

It seems like there’s always a new IG or YouTube Hair Guru, who offers advice on techniques and product. Try to pay attention to the comments and experience of others. If they’ve had negative reactions you want to be aware, even more so, than if the experience was positive. Spending hard earned money and time on things that don’t benefit you will only upset you and you will become less likely to try something new next time. Ask other people how they enjoyed the product and if you have the opportunity, if they would suggest it for your hair type. Hair care is very expensive, so experimentation should be researched. Moving slow and being methodic is the best way to maintain that crown. Once your satisfied with your learnings, be it a styling technique, shampoo, hair care products or hair styling tools knowledge it will help you spend your hard earned funds wisely.

MAINTENANCE
Maintaining your appearance with the help of hairstylist is important for professional color, conditioning and cuts. I love doing my own hair but nothing will ever compare to allowing a professional to take care of my tresses, on a scheduled basis.

With close cropped or bald head, a professional is extremely personal. The hair and hairline maintenance is crucial to you appearance so chose wisely and never skimp, on cost.  If you maintain your hair/head yourself, remember your razor should be clean and sharp. Make sure to change your blade regularly to avoid razor bumps and poorly cut surfaces.

Think of the fact that the professional has the ability to see your whole head, some thing we as humans are unable to do. While professional use can be expensive, it’s up to you to decide how much you want and need. Think of the professional as a base-layer or touchstone, then decide how often you continue to use them, for your maintenance. This advice goes for all hair types.

STYLES
I am someone who enjoys having different hairstyles for different outfits. Things don’t always workout, but I don’t think I’ll ever stop trying.

Using media to get new ideas is something very helpful. A plethora of ideas, on so many different type of people bringing concepts to the table and breaking them down to simple techniques is so great for the “Average Josephine”.  New bun ideas, braid on braids, twist versions and the combination of twist-braids & buns for all hair types is fun and exciting.

With work, chores and sometimes just a lack of imagination, it’s great that there are people out there who can just offer a new visual of “Hey, how about this?”.  Use the internet and magazines to bring you ideas for updo’s , curl or straightening techniques and color.

While I’ve done articles, focusing on your signature look; if part of your signature is your hairstyle then, this may not be your focus, but there is still an opportunity, in detail for the signature look. 

Playing with bangs, two or three different ponytail modifications and twist ideas only adds excitement to your overall appearance and coordination to our Put Togethers.


ACCESSORIES
For queens who have signature hairstyles, adding a new type of scarf, barrette or headband can be transformative.

Scarfs are always great. They can be used to tie your ponytail, as a headband , cover the entire head with a choice of hair showing in the back or twist the scarf to the back with hair showing in the front. Scarves also have a range of tie ideas; another area where that good ole internet can be helpful.

Barrettes are simple and easy yet impactful. Barrettes coming in a range of size, width, materials and colors, you can use one or one hundred to get a unique appearance.

Headbands can come in a range of width fabrics and hairstyles. Think about the different metallic colors, beading, and application ideas even with a basic bob or ponytail offering a new look.

There are still so many different items that can be added to your hair for fun! Jewels, bobby-pins, beading in braids and bows of all sizes and color. I recently helped a girlfriend add mylar fringe to her ponytail for a Lady GaGa concert! Imagination and time are great resources, for your tresses.


COMPLETION
Another important thing to remember is your finishing. Make sure you keep the right combs, brushes and pins to create your look. Make sure to have the right gel, mousse, lotion or anything else that might be suggested, to help with the perfect crown.

Make a habit of planning out the intricate details before you start, so you can achieve your masterpiece with all the right equipment.

Time management is important.
Martha Stewart says never try a new recipe,  on guest. I say never try a new hairstyle 1st thing, of a busy morning. Try it out the night before or on the weekend when you have free time. Once you see how long it will take you to finish your new hairstyle, how much gel and hairspray you’ll need you will work faster and better every time. Muscle memory will react better on your 2nd and 3rd time you attempt your crown perfection and that hairdo that might have taken you 15-20 minutes hopefully can be knocked out in 7 minutes flat with practice.

Whether you decide on detailed updos, fantastic curls that grow out with a bit of color or twist which make you feel at ease, remember that you are a queen and your crown should always be reflective!

Enjoy your reign!

 

DELAY IS NOT DENIAL

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Has God given you a promise that has yet to be fulfilled? Perhaps, you seem to be waiting what appears to be an eternity (although it really is not), but then nothing happened. In fact, to you, it seems like your circumstances turned for the worse.

Financial strain, relationship/family stress, job aggravation – all these changes have been delayed, but for one second, do not think it is a denial. You must be patient, because God is definitely working it out in your favor. Some good things are not to be rushed.

As a young man, God gave Joseph, the son of Jacob (see Genesis 37-48) a promise that one day he would rule. But then, for the next thirteen years everything went exactly opposite to the promise. His brothers, who hated him, sold him to the Egyptians. As a slave in Potiphar’s house, he was falsely accused of raping his master’s wife. Then he was thrown into prison and forgotten. Joseph refused to let his circumstances shape his outlook. He allowed no self-pity or bitterness to rob him of energy. Instead, he chose to use each circumstance ― whether at home, at Potiphar’s house, or in prison ― as God’s appointed place where he would serve Him with all of his heart. God eventually blessed Joseph and made him a blessing to others.

The moral of that story and this piece is “when you stand strong in faith, instead of using the delayed promise as a reason to grumble against God, keep it in the back of your mind to give it all to God.” Let go of expectations of how and when God would carry out the promise and instead, in the meantime, know that God was up to something much bigger than you could have imagined. In time – God’s time! You will see how your life begins to change. Your wisdom, faith and loyalty were repaid with an anointing.

Remember that your plan is not God’s plan. What we may think is good or right for us, God determines the real answer. When people are taken from your life that you once called a friend, do not cry over that loss. Instead sit and see the difference in your life with the new-found freedom and weight loss from getting rid of death weight. Trust Him even when life doesn’t make sense. There is a purpose in what you are going through. Perhaps God is trying to correct your course and redirect your vision. It could be that He is using these trials to teach you to lean more on Him, trust His timing, and strengthen your faith.

God may seem silent but that doesn’t mean He has walked away. He is actually at work in the background, putting together a master plan for you.

A delay is not denial, but a time of preparing you for the promise. It is very hard when we cannot “see” God in action.

Yet, that doesn’t mean He isn’t acting on our behalf. God will never give up on you. Whenever you feel discouraged or start to wonder if God is still there and cares, you can say this prayer:

Dear God, cleanse my heart of self-pity and resentment. I trust that
your good plan for my life is being carried out and that my current
situation is not my final destination. Help me God to believe in You,
trust You and have faith in You, because You have my best interests at
heart. While I wait on this storm to pass God, help me to endure and
keep my heart and mind focused on your promises. Teach me to count
my blessings, because for too long I have allowed others to block Your
blessings. I turn it all over to You God. Amen.

If you are struggling day to day, then every day take a moment to pray on it. Take a few minutes and write down all that ails you and/or that you feel is a roadblock to your destination. Go home and kiss your loved ones and ignore the things that would normally make you mad and say Thank You God, because there is a person or some people who wish they had another opportunity to speak to their loved ones and/or to make peace with a coworker or friend. If you have been patiently waiting for something good to happen, know that each day you are given life, something good has already happened. Stop stressing over what is wrong and start appreciating what is right. Celebrate the moments and know that DELAY IS NOT DENIAL!

Reach, Teach, Preach

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm
Although life does seem to be hopeless at times and despair takes over, your mental, and everything starts looking meaningless does not indeed mean that it will remain that way. Sometimes purposes are revealed in different stages of your life, and a guaranteed knowledge on why it happened does not correlate to everyone’s life the same. Have you ever thought about those who feel they know why they exist or why the world is the way that it is?
I just received a text message this morning from a friend of mine, and he was responding to a question about an event I asked him about last night. So he says, why are you up so early? I said because I LOVE waking up and being with the Lord before everyone else gets to Him with demands. I said, why are you up? He said because I’m Ninjah (Nigg) Rich and lonely. It’s so sad…. so while everyone is waiting for a certain amount of money before they have a mate or settle down in a relationship, you better know that there are people ou, there with nothing but dollars who wish they had a certain amount of ONE person to be with.
Also, I remembered that I need to do some self-reflectin,g. For example, I love how, when t, here are long comments on a thread I say something, and they come at my neck or give the side-eye, but let another brother say the same thing, and it’s “AMEN, talk that talk”… LOL. It’s so funny b/c I’m like Ummm you do know this is the record of your fakeness, right??? #yeahI’mputtingyouonblast… Just felt like keeping it real and raw as always… but with LOVE, of course. Be true to who you are and how you are by staying CONSISTENT, T and not anyway,y, the wind blows.
What always cracks me up is when I say something on a thread, and the chicks come at my neck. WOMEN are so thirsty and competitive, and they try so hard to act like they aren’t when they are. SMH… the funny thing is I’m like “YO, but I see you and if I do, you know he must too”… LOL OMG Y’all. That’s why you guys can kick game all the time, b/c women out here are straight desperate like they can handle theirs.
When you’ve reached the point in your life when you value men for who they are without a hidden agenda to gain anything from them including devotion, a commitment, or a relationship… when you keep it 100 with them and are kind and appreciative for what they bring to your friends and contribute to society without the expectation of anything in return… THEN is when you’ve learned the ART of being THAT ONE that makes them look twice, think twice, and second guess why they aren’t with you for life. TRUST ME though this particular skill is like class, you either have it, or you don’t. It can’t be taught, bought, learned, shared, or imparted…it is something that just is, it comes from within, and when I,t’s genuine and not forced, it shines all over you like a high pro (performance) glow to all my sisters that rock that SHINE, let me shout you out.
GET YOUR SHINE ON MY LOVELY SISTERS. The brothers SEE you, they RECOGNIZE and trust they KNOW. Oh yeah and sorry,… for the sisters who rock that SHINE but have that DESPERADO thirst underneath, um, they SEE that too. They just act like they’re fooled. Sorry.

LIFE is like an obstacle course; those challenges are used to increase your skill and your stamina.


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New and Improved

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

Think about it – change is seen in the natural world’s transformations as well as its transition from season to season; change occurs among people who transform – both physically, mentally, socially, emotionally and even spiritually – every single day of their lives; and change is seen in civilization, politics, thought, art, geography, and economy, etc., in just about every aspect of the modern world. The word “Change” refers to an act or instance of making or becoming different – such as history’s change, or transition, from a nomadic to an agricultural society.

If this notion is valid, then why does it seem that so many people are resistant to change? It’s a tough question to answer. But it warrants an attempt.

Consider all the changes in a person’s life: a person is born a small baby, they live and grow, then one day become old and decrepit, and they ultimately die. It is the natural order of things, but no one wants to get past, suffer, and die. So naturally, people do things to resist this big change, only to finally come to terms that they – like all living things – must wither away into a state of nothingness.

From my friend Orlando, “You shouldn’t have a guard. You should have a filter. There’s a huge difference, and I promise, it’s a much better way to live. A guard is a fear-based defense mechanism that you put up and take down over and over again to protect yourself from your own vulnerability in intimate relationships. It’s an exhausting exercise that can weigh down your soul. A filter isn’t fear-based. You don’t have to put it up or take it down. It’s a permanent part of you that requires a certain amount of inner strength and a well-defined set of personal standards, but it allows you to embrace your vulnerability. The real trick is accepting the fact that a certain amount of emotional pain is inevitable. Sometimes relationships are gonna hurt, and there’s no getting around it.

People who keep their guards up are living in fear of that emotional pain. When they let their guards down, they’re just living in denial of its inevitability. People with filters accept the inevitability of emotional pain, but they have the self-discipline to mitigate chaos and negativity by either processing it, or cutting it off at the source.”—unknown

Hold on tight to your dreams so that you make it to the destination of THEM through the journey.

Remember that it is only the EGO which allows you to carry guilt and regret that your filthy and stubborn pride will not allow you to release.

That is why there is the PLUG of REGRET filling the HOLE that only GOD can make WHOLE but your EGO has Eased God Out of the equation. Know that once you rid your prideful self of the ‘need’ to hold on for whatever reason to what you should have let go and moved on from a long time ago, then you can Evict Guilt Out, lose that EGO and replace the vibration with Embracing God’s Omnipotence/Omnipresence/and Omniscience and WALK INTO THE WEALTHY PLACE of HEALING and PROSPERITY!!!!!


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ME Being

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

All of us have looked at others and wished we could be like them. We wanted we could have what they have.

But you can’t be someone else. You are you. You are unique and have your talents and experiences. You can use those talents and skills to get what you want, but you shouldn’t sacrifice yourself to do so.

Many of us also act like someone we are not. Whether you did it to impress a love interest, your boss, or someone else, we have all not been ourselves because we believed it would get us what we wanted.

But when you are not yourself, you change. You change who you are and what you are about. You change your thoughts and, beliefs, and you become someone who tries to please others instead of wanting yourself. You become someone else instead of being yourself.

Sometimes the greatest courage is to BE me being who you are, THINK how you do, SAY what you feel, LIVE what you know, and TRUST it will all be fine.

The beginning of every situation, circumstance, occurrence, and relationship is what sets the tone and lets you know EXACTLY what you are in the midst of. Follow your intuition because it never lies.

The hardest exercise you will ever have to perform to be great, successful, healthy, wealthy, and wise is that of strengthening, toning and conditioning THE MIND. The transformation is instantaneous once the renewal occurs.

Meditation is the ME being (meditation) time everyone needs and should have as often as possible.


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Back and Forth

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

Life is precious because it was given to us as a gift. We are here for a purpose. And, as long as we are 6 feet above the ground, we have the opportunity to make the most of the life that was given to us. Right now, others are not so lucky. People are dying every moment, and someone is losing a loved one or friend. Even if that’s happened to you with someone close, you’re still here. You’re reading these words right now.

Being 6 feet above ground is an important distinction to make. It’s an awareness that will give you perspective on life and all the things around you. There are billions of souls on this planet just trying to make it in life and are so immersed in their goals or problems that they never actually stop to realize that they’re alive right now. You’re still here, and you have the chance to make the most of it right now and be happy in this very moment, not at some point down the line.

People don’t even realize they are making a mistake when they are acting, only when they look back and assuming they have matured, can see how wrong as two left shoes they were. That is why when you live AUTHENTICALLY and pure in your heart and intentions, even the wrongest and heart-wrenching happenings are of no consequence and never yield regret.

Two proper lessons I learned in life.

1. Make sure that what is feeding your confidence is genuinely rooted and not something of temporal superficial pleasure and

2. Make sure your intentions are pure or that fed confidence will breed its monster of arrogance and leave you empty and alone in every area of your life before it’s all over.

We get one chance at this thing called LIFE, and looking back on your regrets or mistakes is like walking into your destiny backward and blind instead of meeting it head-on and ready!


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Even More

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

GOD takes care of His own. Live the gift of life you’ve been given to the fullest.

WHEN GOD MOVES and SHOWS UP… there is no doubt WHO gets all the GLORY.

People who are BITTER to the TASTE need more SUGAR added….. LOVE is just the sweetness they need.

Instead of interacting with people with your closed mind, begin to get to know them with your open heart.

This life is fleeting. This life is fragile. This life is but a vapor’s breath. The next life, the age to come, is where all God’s provision and care for us will ultimately make sense and come together as a whole.

We may not receive healing in this life, but we will receive perfect healing in eternity. We may not see answers to our greatest prayers in this life, but we will receive fully in eternity. Some days God’s provision and care may seem distant, but it will be ever-present in eternity. We long for our world to stop raging and be at peace, but ultimate peace will only come in eternity.

Our hearts ache under the pressures of this life, but it is only because we were made for another world. We are sojourners and aliens on this earth.


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Got This One Off Of Facebook .. A BEAUTIFUL LOVE STORY

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly.

Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words. Instead, she asked me softly. Why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me; you are not a man!

That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement that stated that she could own our house, our car, and a 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources, and energy, but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly.

Finally, she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me, her cry was a kind of release. The idea of divorce, which had obsessed me for several weeks, seemed to be firmer and brighter now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care, so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning, she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month, we both struggle to live as healthy a life as possible.

Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month and sh,e didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more; she asked me to recall how I had carried her into the out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration, I send her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable, I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us; daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more quickly. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young anymore. There were fine wrinkles on her face; her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute, I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this.

It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute.

I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms, I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door, and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce.

My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day, I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart. Jane seemed to wake up suddenly. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote; I’ll carry you out every morning until death does us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run upstairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months, and I was so busy with Jane even to notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever adverse reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.– At least, in the eyes of our son— I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what matters in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give pleasure in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.


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Transitions

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

These last two days have been extremely hectic for me. I AM transitioning out of a period in my life that has been 20 years in the making, and it’s incredible. I remember buying my first piece of real estate in 1987, and my first primary residence piece of real estate in 1995. Since that time, God-blessed, and I’ve owned three houses, two duplexes (two apartments each), and a retail store. I’ve bought a total of 4 houses, two duplexes, a retail store, 18 acres of land, and a few things here and there. Real estate was never a hobby or something that I desired to do, it just sort of fell into my lap and became one of my many talents, a gift in the ‘un-knowing of things, and most definitely a blessing in disguise in the long run.

Here it is 20 years later, and as I AM going through this MAJOR, a VERY MAJOR transition in my life from all fronts I am amazed at where I’ve been, what I’ve survived going through, and most of all what’s to come.

Now while I always come from the VOICE of relationships, because I believe that is the SOURCE of all that IS in the duality of the universe… I know that lessons learned through our ‘having’ relationships transcend into who we are as people, friends, business partners, colleagues, and neighbors.

I believe that all of what we have been thru and the mistakes made were in the “PREPARATION” for the NOW. If you want to look at it in God’s eyes…he says the first shall be last and the last shall be first…that your latter will be GREATER THAN your past… so I AM so good where I am. I do notice that the more mighty and powerful I get in God, the more I AM sent distractions to test my commitment and my learning. I personally at 41yrs do not have time to keep repeating old lessons, so when something in me returns to the familiar characteristics of my more past and lower self, I look towards prayer with my higher SELF to resolve it.

In terms of LIFE itself, this transition of my period of LOSS of THINGS is being met with a lot of mixed emotions. I have my moments when I grieve for certain ‘aspects’ of the loss, but NEVER have a problem with the losing of the THINGS in the first place.

I have always personally believed that GOD has blessed me w/everything for my enjoyment for whatever moment He sees fit and I AM both resolved and completely ok when the time comes for Him to transition me through removal. I have learned in my love of SELF, and I AM, that external things have no value unless we place value upon it. Unfortunately, we are instructed that our ‘measure’ is based on what others draw as conclusions and perceive about us…usually, we mistakingly believe that is by what we drive, how we dress, what we look like, where we live, who’s in our circle, and what we’ve accumulated and accomplished…when the TRUTH is quite simple, the measure of us is in WHO WE ARE, WHO WE CHOOSE TO BECOME and nothing more than that.

I know that with all I have realized and learned, I AM still living this VERY HUMAN EXPERIENCE with VERY HUMAN emotions. As far as relationships are concerned, no one is perfect, and this is a constant b/c it is in our nature to want to be mated w/our significant others…however, for me… I don’t wish to A man or A boyfriend or A husband… I can have that with one phone call to many people who have been that for me before and still wait in the wings for me to be that now… I AM holding out for THE MAN, THE BOYFRIEND, THE HUSBAND b/c the DNA of my bones fits only one ribcage, and I’m not holding up his favor any longer than I already have. Prayerfully whoever and wherever on this planet, that he is, he feels the same is doing the same, and one day, we will finally meet, and both of our KNOWING will be confirmed.!

That is why I AM single too. I usually get bored sooner rather than later, and I have yet to meet a man with (1)Enough discernment to know my value and (2)The courage to walk by faith. Also, I AM so spiritually motivated, dream driven, and destiny bound that I understand I AM much too much for most people so for someone even to have the skill to inspire me in that manner I believe has only happened once in my lifetime…too bad we had different religious belief systems (and a meddling EX)…lol

As strange as this may sound, I do believe in almost every instance we tend to attract some part of who we are as others. Even if it’s what we don’t want in a significant other, having the energy of “not wanting” is still energy and is projected and returned to us. I would say that I have noticed that sisters (myself in times past included) attract those less than who we are either b/c we have that ‘rescue’ mentality or that notion that we’re trying to be the everything to a man so he can be the everything back to us in return when the truth of the matter is until we are EVERYTHING to ourselves and come to a space and place of comfort in sending the energy out to the universe of HEALTHY DESIRES then that THE MAN for us, the one whose rib we are made from, the one who will automatically recognize His DNA in us, cannot be.

Well, it’s like this for me… I spent so much of my life and time searching for “MY OTHER HALF” that I decided the other half I was looking for was ME and IN ME all the time.!!! I’ve been happy ever since. We are all works in progress, being perfected through our relationships with one another. The ultimate love relationship does not have to be defined by the husband/wife partnership…the ultimate LOVE relationship is that intimacy you experience w/the one who created you out of love to love and be love in the first place. Unless there is a need in the manifestation for THAT love in the flesh, THAT love in the spirt and other LOVE relationships through family and friends will have to be sufficient.


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The Irony of a Horoscope: Hidden Messages from the Universe

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 21, 2020, at 1:00 pm

People of religious proportions always want to discount astrology; however, through my careful and very objective study of the KJV1611 Bullinger’s Companion Bible, amongst other things, I’ve learned of the existence and much relevance of ASTRONOMY as a part of our spiritual history and vibration. The constellation of stars and alignment have credence. It’s amazing to me sometimes how the horoscope is sometimes a fragile and underlying whisper of a wave of energy-dependent upon the ‘alignment’ of sorts. In some weird way, a comparable notation that one should make when assessing the in’s and out’s of what’s going on within. Unlike most, I don’t read horoscope in advance with an expectation or hope that it can give me some insight into the future or a clue as to where I am going next. I think by my reading them the day or even sometimes DAYS after, it’s afforded me an objectivity others can’t conceptualize.

This was my YESTERDAY’s horoscope and so very timely.

Ensuring The Future
Virgo Daily Horoscope
Your choices may be marked by a hesitancy today that is in opposition to your usual decisiveness. Since you may feel unsure of yourself, your approach to the decision-making process will likely be cautious and tentative. Though you may wonder whether your tendency to think over your options for a long time before proceeding is interfering with your forward momentum, you may, in actuality, be saving yourself from a great deal of heartache. Mulling over the alternatives before you today can help you identify those that have actual substance so that you can differentiate them from those that only appear worthy of your continued attention.

Our destinies are one of the greatest assets we possess, so we serve ourselves well when we are careful always to make decisions that are reflective of both the values we hold dear and the goals we hope to accomplish someday. We should not let our experimental approach to potentially life-altering decisions interfere with our enthusiasm for those paths that lie untrodden, however. Great care is most effective when paired with a sincere eagerness that ensures that we do not become paralyzed by uncertainty. We are willing to subject ourselves to choices that are challenging because we understand that beautiful rewards are waiting for us in the future if we are eager to do what it takes to reach them. Today the caution with which we make decisions will help guarantee that our worldly endeavors will eventually be met with success.

Over the past few weeks, I have been met with so many decisions that have needed to be made b/c of my transition and changes taking place in my life. From having the twins enter college and having my beginning stages of EMPTY NESTING, to selling my home, moving HOME, and ultimately leaving the corporate workforce I committed 22 years of my life to, it has not been easy. Now match that to the transitions of being self-employed, needing to do what I’ve never done before to gain sustenance in business while at the same time making the right choices when it comes to OPTIONS. I’ve been presented with more in the past few months than I have in my entire lifetime. I have to believe that it is because of my being in “alignment” with purpose and God. Needless to say with all that is available to me, the path that I’ve been on is relative to what is happening in the present, and I can see how necessary it was for me to even BE in the position of “RECEIVING” what’s about to go down in my future.

As I embark upon the “WHAT I DON’T KNOW” on the road of “I WOULD NEVER HAVE EVER THOUGHT I’D BE HERE,” I am elated because for the first time “MY STEPS ARE BEING ORDERED AND WITHOUT THINKING I’M ALLOWING MY SPIRIT TO FOLLOW.”


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Make Sure to Protect The Lenses of Your Rose Colored Glasses

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 14, 2020, at 1:00 pm

This morning, it occurred to me that the reason I had a fabulous life to look back on was that in my 20s and 30s, I was fearless. I did what I wanted and KNEW I could have anything I wanted and always lived with the mentality it is my world, and anything I put my mind to is what it will be.

Then something changed in my 40s, and I couldn’t figure out why I wasn’t the same. It was because I had met a man when I was on top of my game. He had broken me so much and so far down to my core that I lost something in the process …. that innocence and foundational belief system that caused me to operate from a LOVE place where very few people could, do, or understand.

It shifted, and I had to regroup, and it took me years to get back. The truth of the matter is, I am STILL on that journey of getting back to the unyielding peace and unconditional love energy and 4th-dimensional vibration I walked in and lived in 24/hrs a day 7/days a week. I know it seems impossible, but once upon a time for me, it was my reality. When I woke up from that death bed experience, I was never the same.

In looking back, I realize and can assess my SELF and self. I know what drives which energy inside of me. I know my hot spots, and it clicked.  I realized the obstacles, stumbling blocks, and interference were and have always been from PEOPLE…. PEOPLE…. People… and only because I ALLOWED them to be. Does mot ever give away your power by feeding into the thoughts and sentiments of who people TRY to say you are or make you out to be, of the ideas and energy of who and what your LOWER SELF tries to make you out to be, who your EGO makes you out to be, who PRIDE makes you out to be?

Protect the LENSES of YOUR ROSE COLORED GLASSES and do not easily take them off, put them down, or cast them aside. And finally, remember to be very scrutinizing of people, especially those who find themselves scrutinizing you.

AND especially those you choose to be in your immediate circle. You may catch something from their vibrational energy that could take you years to get rid of.


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The World on Your Back

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by Stefany J. Jones on Thursday, September 14, 2020, at 1:00 pm

If you are having difficulty with understanding and acceptance, you are in the company of people not on your level.  The most beautiful lives lived are those where people understand that beauty radiates from the inside out. When you are able to share love and beauty, you develop the art of seeing the beauty in others that they don’t even see within themselves.

If my words offend you, please let me apologize. If my walk offends you, please let me open the door for you to leave.

The best gift you can give to another is unconditional love….. of yourself!

People are not at war with each other… people are at war with themselves.

Maintain integrity in all of your business dealings, and you reap the benefits of excellence in all of your business relationships.

If you are dissatisfied with your work situation, it may mean you are being subliminally motivated by your spirit man to start living out your passion!

Those who throw stones forget we all live in glass houses.

If you never find yourself taking accountability for your actions, then you are one who lives in the company of your ego and pride-no room for error or GOD.


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